Some of us have more sexual experience than others. Some of us get into “game” looking to improve, others are looking to get started. There is allot of advice for guys to get them between the sheets. But what can guys gain from who have never been there before? If you have never been intimate or had sexual intercourse, Diving under the covers may seem like something that resmples Journey to the Center of The Earth.
Framing – If you have never done something before, its easy to assign it meaning that may not be appropriate, much less useful to you what your achieving. As well as Identifying the anchors that the mainstream, culture, friends or other influences has placed upon you. What we are really encourage you to do is challenge your self to look at your current beliefs and the meaning you assign to this subject, and abstract outside it.
What is it that is really holding you back from achieving the person you want to be, The things you want to experience. And if you did, how would you wake up that morning, Enjoy that day, or experience being the new you?
But its getting to the other side that can be so Difficult for some of us, isn’t it…?
We focus and celibate so much as our sexual experience as the end of something, Defining clear lines about the person who we were before the experience and the person who we will be after. Thoughts you may have might be, will you be a Bad person, will you become a man? A stud, a Deviant, someone who Indulges in sexual perversion? I hate to break it to you, but none of these things will happen. What I can guarantee if you practiced Safer sex, is that you’ll collect and you’ll go about your usual routines as you always have, maybe with a smile on your face that says “guess what I just did.” Lighting wont strike you, but you might feel like you just stumbled upon a million bucks.
This isn’t about just getting laid, its about identifying and change beliefs that we cling on to that may not sever us in the best ways. Maybe it starts with engaging with the opposite sex, doing may be a great way for you to avoid pain in your daily life. But What if you challenged that, saw your self living a life where not only you did but it was fun and enjoyable. Look back from the new you, that you have created, what how do you feel about the old ways you this situation may have felt to you, How much that changing the meaning meant engaging in a life that you enjoyed, instead of envied.
I’ll let you in on a secret on my biggest fear..Its the fear that I see everything as nail. As funny as it says i’m refering to an old saying that says when you have a hammer, everything looks like a nail. So I’m constantly asking myself, maybe I need a screwdriver. As silly as the illustration sounds, it works. And I belive you can make these changes in your life too. To take that hammer and ask your self, what if I used this tool over here instead.
Does size matter? : Can you find the Clitoris? Mind bending orgasms for women dont soley exist in the vagina. And To give them one you dont have to go that deep either, The Gspot is locatable by a thicker often diffident textured area of tishue Located about a fingers lenth a way in on the roof of the vagina. Though this verys from vagina to vagina.
How Quick is Quick?: Most studys boast speeds of 5-10 mins for the average couple. So Dont sweet it, if your first time you dont last very long. With practice and being observant about how your body is reacting its very easy to go for 20-30 mins if not longer. Its not cheating if you have to slow down for a bit to last longer or exit the vagina once or twice. And her clit may enjoy some extra attention as well.
A word to the wise, after about an hour or two things do get sore. So You might want to rethink your ideas of Sex all night.
Know and prepare your self from what is Varsity Level Sex and What is considered Starter or more Traditional. You don’t have to master the Karma Sutra to have an amazing experience. Missionary, Her on Top and Dogie style are still amazingly fun for even the best at sex.
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Though anyone who is just starting off, These are wonderful Resources as well.
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